Victim Monsters: When the Wounded Become the Wound
Stardate 2026.205 · D915 There’s a kind of person our language isn’t built to hold. We have a word for the villain — the one who hurts people because something in them is broken toward cruelty. And we have a word for the victim — the one hurt through no fault of their own, owed […]
DARVO — The Three-Move Defense Abusers Use Without Knowing the Name
DARVO The Three-Move Defense Abusers Use Without Knowing the Name The first time someone DARVO’d me, I was the one apologizing within about ninety seconds. I had brought up a thing that had happened — a specific incident, a real one, with details and a date and an impact. I had rehearsed how to say […]