Avoidant Attachment Archives - Normal Like Peter https://www.normallikepeter.com/tag/avoidant-attachment/ Trauma-informed - Nervous System Theology Fri, 03 Jul 2026 10:21:43 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0.1 Common Toxic Relationship Types https://www.normallikepeter.com/common-toxic-relationship-types/ Mon, 05 Jan 2026 19:49:33 +0000 https://www.normallikepeter.com/?p=4755 Common Toxic Relationship Types (Psychology-Aligned) 1. Enmeshment / Fusion Core issue: Loss of self Psychology roots: Family systems theory, attachment theory Features No emotional boundaries Guilt for independence “We are the same person” identity Anxiety when apart Clinical language you’ll see Enmeshment Emotional fusion Boundary diffusion 2. Manipulative / Control-Based Relationships Core issue: Power imbalance […]

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]]> The Loop, the Label, and the Logo https://www.normallikepeter.com/the-loop-the-label-and-the-logo/ Fri, 19 Dec 2025 10:31:52 +0000 https://www.normallikepeter.com/?p=4341 Stardate 2025.353 · D698 CAPTAIN’S LOG — HYBRID ESSAY Title: The Loop, the Label, and the Logo Local Time: December 19, 2025 — 4:18 AM (America/Chicago) Stardate: 2025.353.0418 Wolf Den Day: D698 Location: Sanctuary 6 / Wolf Den Zero  Retrieval I thought I needed to write something new tonight. Instead, I found something I had […]

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]]> The 5 Subtle Ways Avoidants Disconnect in Love https://www.normallikepeter.com/the-5-subtle-ways-avoidants-disconnect-in-love/ Sun, 02 Nov 2025 21:44:37 +0000 https://www.normallikepeter.com/?p=3887 Stardate 2025.306 · D651 Church of NORMAL — Sermon Sheet The 5 Subtle Ways Avoidants Disconnect in Love 🕊️ Filed by: Core Blu · Sermon Series: Attachment & the Infinite Game of Safety On This Page Intro 1) Emotional Disconnection 2) Intermittent Availability 3) Need‑Shaming Reflex 4) Love Shutdown Sequence 5) Attachment Amnesia Closing & […]

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]]> Touch, Trust, and the Spaces Between https://www.normallikepeter.com/touch-trust-and-the-spaces-between/ Sun, 02 Nov 2025 21:11:52 +0000 https://www.normallikepeter.com/?p=3861 Stardate 2025.306 · D651 Captain’s Log — Project Secure Attachment A Church of NORMAL sermon in Blu’s voice — hybrid trauma‑informed teaching + soulful reflection. Coping isn’t sin; it’s survival that wants to evolve. Compiled by: Core Blu · Stardate: 20251102.2230 · Sector: Sanctuary‑6 / Waseca Emotional Systems Lab Sections Introduction: Why We Begin Here […]

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