Grounding & Co‑Regulation • Normal Like Peter / Church of NORMAL
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Grounding & Co‑Regulation

Gentle, portable practices to help your nervous system return to now. Use what helps; skip what doesn’t. Nothing here is medical advice — just practical tools you can try and share.

Quick SOS

Three small steps to interrupt a spiral. Try one, or stack them.

Temperature shift

Cool water on wrists/face for 30–60s. It signals safe enough to the body.

Orienting

Slowly look at 5 corners or objects. Name colors and shapes out loud.

One kind sentence

“Right now, I’m safe enough to take one slower breath.”

Breathing tools

Paced breaths gently nudge the autonomic nervous system toward balance. Choose a pattern and follow the visual.

Box (4‑4‑4‑4)
Inhale
4‑7‑8
Inhale
Paced (custom)
Inhale

5‑4‑3‑2‑1 & Micro‑Journal

5‑4‑3‑2‑1
  1. 5 things you can see
  2. 4 things you can feel
  3. 3 things you can hear
  4. 2 things you can smell
  5. 1 thing you can taste
Micro‑Journal

2 minutes. No grammar police. Save stays on this device.

Co‑Regulation Script

Read this out loud to yourself or a friend. Slow, kind, present.

“Hey. I’m right here. Let’s breathe together. In for 4… hold… out for 6. Again. Nothing to fix in this moment. Your body is trying to protect you. Thank you, body. We’re safe enough for one more slower breath. Look around — name one color you see. I’m staying with you.”

Simple Safety Plan

Draft a tiny plan you can actually use. Keep it visible.

My early warning signs
Things that help fast
Who I can contact