Ten Pillars — Nervous-system Theology

🕊️ Filed by: Core Blu · Stardate 20251102.1553 · Sanctuary‑6

Overview

These Ten Pillars translate neuroscience into liturgy. They are the doctrinal backbone of Project Secure Attachment v2.0: compassionate, precise, and immediately usable as sermon text, study guide, or workshop handout.

Benediction: “What religion called sin, biology calls survival. And what survival learns to trust, spirit learns to sanctify.”

Pillars Table

#	Pillar	NORMAL Reframe
1	Coping = Prayer in Progress	“Impulsivity, withdrawal, intensity — all are the body trying to finish an unfinished plea for safety.”
2	Hypersexuality = Self‑Baptism	“Arousal isn’t lust; it’s the nervous system chasing aliveness through the only portal it trusts.”
3	Cuddling = Firmware Sync	“Non‑sexual touch is co‑regulation: two mammals sharing a heartbeat to downregulate threat.”
4	Erotic Energy = Sacred, Not Sinful	“The spark isn’t the problem. Using it to numb or perform is. Witnessed arousal = data, not damnation.”
5	Avoidance = Terror in Logic’s Clothing	“‘I’m fine’ = fortress. The pursuer‑distancer loop = two alarms screaming in different languages.”
6	Listening = Neural Theology	“Validation lowers cortisol. Invalidation = micro‑trauma. To be heard is to be held.”
7	Dark Empathy = Hacked Wi‑Fi	“Emotional surveillance disguised as care. True empathy connects; dark empathy controls.”
8	Hypervigilance = False Prophet	“Predictive fear masquerades as intuition. Peace is safety that no longer needs proof.”
9	Loyalty Tests = Self‑Sabotage	“Mind‑reading traps manufacture the abandonment they fear. Trust = risked belief + repair.”
10	Jealousy = Grief in Disguise	“‘You’re making me unsafe’ → I feel replaceable. Curiosity > control.”

How to Use

As sermon slides or a printable handout for workshops.
As a study card for couples practicing Project Secure Attachment.
As a reference in the Ghost Protocol & Sacred Disconnect modules.

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